Monday, March 28, 2011

Did You Get Along with Your Brother and Sister?

Good grief! No! We fought like cats and dogs when we were growing up. Joanne and Pat were pretty close and got along better than I did with either of them. My sister and I fought about everything. She took my clothes and wore them to school after I had left early for school with my father in high school. She was angry because our teachers in grammar school always compared her to me ("Why can't you be a good student like Diane?"). She hated school; she didn't like sitting still; she still doesn't. She likes to be going and doing things, whereas i am content to curl up with a book. We "stole" the record player back and forth from each other's rooms and also the electric razor. I wore uniforms and she would never let me borrow her clothes for a dance or going out. I did wear one of her gowns to the Military Ball in university in my senior year and I was crowned queen. She claimed it was because of the dress. Maybe it was. We got along better after I got married and moved away, and even better when I got divorced because she and Jimmie (Grandpa) didn't get along well. Two Geminis butting heads.

Pat and I got along better but his arrogance always makes me a bit annoyed, even today. He is a little put out with me now because of my involvement with CASA, when he had all that trouble over the children in Oklahoma. It's an iffy relationship. I write to him every 6 weeks or so ago but I rarely hear from him. He isn't into computers so email is out. Snail mail is in.

Relationships with brothers and sisters are very complicated.

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